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Vivian Jacobs,
MA, BCPC, LMFT

Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, New York

I’m a licensed marriage and family therapist with more than twenty-five years of experience helping couples, families, and individuals navigate challenges, transitions, and cross-cultural issues.

Having lived and worked in both the United States and France, I understand the complexities of bi-national and bi-cultural relationships, expatriation, and raising families across languages and countries.

Training & background:

NYU · Fairfield University · Post-Graduate training at Westchester Family Institute (Advanced Family Systems) · Additional training in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT).

Longstanding private practice serving English-speaking clients and the French and international communities in New York City and Westchester County.

Warm, direct, non judgmental, and practical.
Couples
Couples sessions help partners slow down, understand what hurts and freezes exchange, and rediscover how to speak and listen to one another.

They offer a space to rebuild respect, closeness, and sometimes a touch of lightness — to find the desire to meet again
Families, children & adolescents
Family sessions help parents and children hear one another differently - what is no longer said, or what is said too harshly.

I work with parents and children together or separately depending on age and needs (children ages 5–10 with regular parent sessions).

Young Adults
Leaving home, beginning studies, or taking first steps toward independence can be both exciting and destabilizing.

Therapy offers space to pause, refocus, and regain steadiness when confidence falters, emotions overwhelm, or direction feels unclear.
Individuals Expats
Living between countries or languages changes the way we see ourselves. Therapy can help name what feels lost, what is being built, and the emotions behind expatriation. I work on identity, belonging, multicultural relationships, parenting bilingual children, and the transitions of an international life
A rediscovered step of understanding and tenderness.

Couples

Couples sessions help partners slow down, understand what hurts and freezes exchange, and rediscover how to speak and listen to one another.

They offer a space to rebuild respect, closeness, and sometimes a touch of lightness — to find the desire to meet again.

I work with couples in crisis, those growing distant, blended families, and partners seeking to maintain connection through life and career transitions.

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Testimonials:

“We were stuck in the same disagreements for years. With Vivian’s guidance, we finally began to hear each other rather than defend ourselves. The calm returned before the love did — but it returned."

C. and M., married 12 years

“We came to therapy unsure whether to stay together. Vivian helped us move from blame to self-awareness. Whatever happens next, we speak with restraint and greater respect.”

A. and S., couple in transition

“After an affair, we were unsure whether healing was even possible. It’s humbling and hard work to accept one’s role in the betrayal. But with time, transparency, and commitment, forgiveness can begin. We understood that being part of a couple means prioritizing each other.”

M. and L., couple in therapy

“We were stuck in the same disagreements for years. With Vivian’s guidance, we finally began to hear each other rather than defend ourselves. The calm returned before the love did — but it returned."

C. and M., married 12 years

“We came to therapy unsure whether to stay together. Vivian helped us move from blame to self-awareness. Whatever happens next, we speak with restraint and greater respect.”

A. and S., couple in transition

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A calmer rhythm returns when everyone is finally heard.

Families, Children & Adolescents

Family sessions help parents and children hear one another differently — what is no longer said, or what is said too harshly.

I work with parents and children together or separately depending on age and needs (children ages 5–10 with regular parent sessions).

The goal is to ease conflict, restore communication, and bring more peace into the home.

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Years of
Experience

Testimonials:

“Our six-year-old son cried every morning before school. Vivian helped us understand his fears and guided us toward calmer mornings. He is now happy to leave in the morning, and we can go on with our day.”

Parents of Léon, 6

“After our second child was born, our daughter became jealous and angry. Vivian helped us listen differently, set calm limits, and restore balance. Home feels lighter again.”

Parents of Romy, 4

“Our teenage son had withdrawn completely. Vivian helped us reconnect and hear what he couldn’t express. We now live with less worry and more understanding.”

Parents of Thomas, 15

A moment to breathe and regain direction.

Young Adults

Leaving home, beginning studies, or taking first steps toward independence can be both exciting and destabilizing.
Therapy offers space to pause, refocus, and regain steadiness when confidence falters, emotions overwhelm, or direction feels unclear.
Sessions help young adults understand themselves better, recognize limits, and build confidence in their decisions and relationships.

Testimonials

You’re in good company

“I had trouble managing university stress and finding my place. Talking with Vivian helped me understand my emotions and regain confidence in my choices.”

Clara M., 19

“After high school, everything felt confusing — studies, friends, the future. Vivian helped me regain clarity and balance.”

Noé L., 18

“At twenty-two, I felt constant pressure to succeed and not disappoint. With Vivian, I learned to slow down, set limits, and make choices that reflect who I am.”

Élise R., 22

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Quietly introspective and ready for what comes next.

Individuals / Expats

Living between countries or languages changes the way we see ourselves. Therapy can help name what feels lost, what is being built, and the emotions behind expatriation.

I work on identity, belonging, multicultural relationships, parenting bilingual children, and the transitions of an international life.

The goal is to regain stability, create friendships and integration, and maintain a continuity that honors your personal history.

Testimonials:

“After a move abroad and a separation, I felt unsteady and unsure where to begin. Vivian helped me understand what was shifting inside and rebuild at my own pace.”

A.M., expatriate client

“Living between two countries, I often felt I belonged nowhere. Through our sessions, I learned to live the best of both worlds and build roots and relationships.”

N.D., long-term expat

“Therapy with Vivian helped me reconnect to parts of myself I had set aside. I no longer feel like life is waiting to begin.”

E.L.

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